If Love Not Love

Well well well... This is the first. The first post is about L-O-V-E....
This is just a story of a friend. Call it Clara, her name. She told me that she was missed by someone. (I was smiling when she said that was missed. Hahaha ... girl likes to spit the miss). "Just enjoy it, Clara!" I responded. "And it miss will missed. haha."
"But this one was different."
"Different? Different how?"
"I miss the people I love, but can not have. It makes it not met (how i miss him oh).
"Well... just enjoyed it .... After all, love is free."
"Well well well'!?"

It's way easier than living it. How it feel when love is unrequited or if we can not expect too much of a loved one? Sometimes I also do not understand a single word that is not no end to it: LOVE. It was every day the word love is scattered everywhere. Starting from the conversation at the dinner table, until now would put the head on the pillow. And sometimes I'm too tired when thoughtfully pondered the meaning of love. What is love?

Too many definitions of love. Starting from the simple to the complex and make brow furrowed. But the problem seems to love only apply to young couples. (Is it true?) I thought to think that love means giving heart. And, given that heart is not easy, I'm sure you already know it! Because giving heart that means giving ourselves to people we love for our loved ones become better, more advanced, and happier (and give yourself an ego that means eroding out yourself), That way, love is free.

Then if so, in fact there is no problem if our love is rejected, because our intention is to "give" and freeing him to accept it or reject it, right? Indeed, perhaps the rejection that followed hurt. But by the rejection we are aware that the granting or muster the effort we have the intention? And in dictionaries of love, self-interest was taboo. Because if we have the intention, we love only ourselves. So, I think Clara probably have a lot to learn, that if love does not mean we should be loved back. And there's nothing wrong if she had not missed a reply to miss the people she loves. Enjoying an unrequited miss was more hurt, but in doing so we also can feel the disappointment of God because we do not miss his reply.

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