Mar 2, 2011

Simple Tips to Keep Your Hearts to Welcome The True Partner

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What simple tips to keep your hearts to welcome the true partner? From experience, it replied: focus on preparation. They are talented failed marriages usually are those that focus on the "Who". With whom. Those who can InsyaAllah through married life full of challenges are those that focus on the "Why" and "How". Why did she marry, and how he grabbed it within the framework of the pleasure of Allah.
So if you want to know, here's preparations:

   
1. Preparation in Spiritual (Ruhiyah)
This includes our readiness to change the mental attitude to be more responsible, willing to share, fading ego, and tolerant. There is also emphasis to be ready to use two things in real life, namely patience and gratitude. There is a readiness to submit to and accept all the provisions of God that govern our lives completely, especially in the household.

  
2. Preparation
Science-Intellectual Property ('Ilmiyah-Fikriyah)
Get ready to set up households with the knowledge, science, and understanding. There is a science of the Ad Deen. There is a science of communication to the mate ma'ruf. There is science to be good parents (parenting). There is a science of economic restructuring. And many other sciences.