Be Full of Love Wife for Husband

Allah Ta'ala says: "And We made them virgins. Lots of love again age in years. "(Surah al-Waqi'ah: 36-37) Ibn A'rabi said, "Al-'Urubu min An-Nisaa'i" (العرب من النساء) means women who are obedient to her husband and showed her love for him. " About the interpretation of 'urub (عرب) the commentators mentioned that the women are very loving husband, affectionate and spoiled to the husband, make love to her husband, making her husband's raging lust to him and make my husband dress up for it. Bukhari in Shahihnya said, "'Uruban (عربا) is a woman who so love to her husband." A Shalihah woman personal reflection of a loving and love to her husband. It never crossed his mind to love another man ... as the spoken Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam, "The wives of the Garden you will be a very loving, that if he was hurt and hurt then he immediately came to her husband, she put her hand on the palm of the hand of her husband, as she says," I can not sleep until you meridhaiku. "(HR . Thabrani)

character and personality of the woman

Women with all the character and personality, he makes the figure of a very unique and very special. One expert physiognomy Sian Gan Gie (GGS), in the days of medieval China said that the character and personality of the woman can be seen from the shape of her breasts, while an expert on personality Simon Brown in his book The Secret Of Face Reading, analyzing the character and personality can be seen from the shape of her nose and there are still some others say that the character and personality can be seen from how to walk, dress, and there is a more unique again that can be seen from the preferred type of fruit. Very different is not it?

Marriage Provision

By: Shaykh Salih Al-Fauzan Fauzan
Preamble
Islam is a universal religion. Religion that covers all aspects of life. No one else matters in this life, but has been described. And no one had problems, but have been touched by Islamic values, although these problems seem minor and trivial. That is Islam, the religion spread mercy for all creatures.
In the case of marriage, Islam has been talking a lot. From the criteria for candidates seeking support life, to how to interact with him when he officially became a conditioned heart. Islam provides guidance, as well as Islam directs how the guide holding a wedding party who like fun, but still get a blessing and not infringe sunnah of the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wasallam, as well as a simple wedding but still there is a special attraction. So Islam teaches.

The Role of Women in The Family

The role of women in the family is depending on the function of women within the family itself. Women can serve as a child, mother, daughter, in-law, brother, sister and wife, as already mentioned above was.
Women as a child in the family, usually will begin to study its role as an expectant mother and wife when he saw how his mother perform their function as mothers and wives.

Two Time Sleeping Prohibited by Rasulullah

Sleep becomes something that essence in our lives. Due to sleep, we become fresh again. The body is tired, the veins shrink, and the muscles that are used on the move all day, can rejuvenate again by sleep.In Islam, all acts of worship can be. Similarly, sleep, as exemplified by the Prophet. In the Qur'an, Allah commanded us to sleep. However, there are two recommended sleep time by the Prophet not to do :
1. Sleep in the Morning After Fajr PrayerFrom wadi'ah bin Sakhr Al-Ghamidi radliyallaahu 'anhu shallallaahu Praise be to Allaah Prophet, upon him blessings and peace: "O God, bless for my ummah in the morning" (Narrated by Abu Dawood 3 / 517, Ibn Majah 2 / 752, Ath-Thayalisi page 175, and Ibn Hibbaan 7 / 122 with saheeh chain).

ROLE OF WOMEN

If we read the Qur'an, then we can know that the creation of Prophet Adam. along with mother Eve, who serves as his wife and his life.
 We know the story of Pharaoh's wife, who can prevent Pharaoh in his intention to kill Moses. As stated in the word of God Almighty.:

  "And Pharaoh's wife said, '(He) eyeball  me and for thee. Do not kill him, hopefully he's useful for us or our  pick up a child, while they do not realize."(Al-Qashash Q.S.: 9).

Resurrection of Ummah

No doubt, that we live in an era the rise of Islam, after all this time the Muslims are unconscious and asleep in his sleep that prolonged, just as the Cave, where intervene on their enemies from the West, East, South and North. Then conquer and master it, so that easily drop them from their religion, namely Islam. Then replaced by force of new regulations, new laws, both in political and social issues.

Muslim Lifestyle Nowadys

Life wheels roll so enormously, the progress of science and technology has changed the "face" of human life on earth. Likewise with the patterns of life of Muslims living today have undergone a shift toward a more modern life and more advanced
There are two things that generally sought by people in this life. The first is good (al-khair), and the second is the happiness (as-Sa'adah). It's just that everyone has different views when understanding the nature of both. The difference is the background of the emergence of a wide range of human lifestyles.

Umm Kulthoom

Goodness of God given not only to her, even Ruqayah Kalthoom also has its own special qualities. Together with her sister, had been returned to the home of her parents, divorced by their husbands. God has saved her, hands Kalthoom dari Utaibah bin Abu Lahab and Umm Jamil mother-in-law Hammalatul Hatab.
        After a divorce, living together with her, Kalthoom family. Umm Kalthoom with his mother is always sad to see her father come home in a state of fatigue, body full of wounds caused by racial hatred ridicule.

RUQAYYAH BINTI MUHAMMAD

Marriage Zainab, the eldest daughter of the Prophet by Abu Al-'Ash not lose the excitement yet, come envoy Abdul Muthallib families looking for family ties to the family of Muhammad. Messenger is to ask the two brothers Zaianb the Ruqayyah and Ummi Kaltsum. Two brothers who are very familiar one. They have two daughters hand in marriage to Muhammad and Utaibah Utbah, second son of Abu Lahab, who is known by the nickname his uncle Abdul Uzza.

FAATIMAH AZ-ZAHRA R.A

She was the fourth daughter of the Prophet was present in the community who adore the presence of boys. Fatimah was born in the years before the Prophet-5 Prophet The presence of this baby was greeted with joy even before the three girls were present without the person's son. The atmosphere in the family they are very beautiful. Both parents are very loved, as well as the brother-sister. Especially Zainab, the eldest sister as her own mothering Fatimah, friends and relatives in the hard or easy.

ZAYNAB AL-KUBRA R.A

A cute girl is no older than 10 years it has become a gem and the Banu Hashim in Makkah youths compete to proposed. But among the youth of Quraysh was no such luck'Ash bin Abi al-Rabi ', a nephew of his own mother.The brave young men often come to Mohammed's house so get the special services and spread the news that he is a man of Zainab, who is also a pujaannya early age. He always watched it since the daughter of Allah's small to adult.Zainab was the oldest daughter of his duty to help her because at that time was Khadijah has more than fifty years. This situation makes maturing fast though Zainab young age.

Choosing a Suitable Business Partner

Working or doing business with a partner is much better than working / doing business alone. One advantage is in terms of distribution / delegation of tasks so that all the work we do not do alone so it can more efficiently and effectively.
Not easy to choose a friend to become a business partner. Not all friends can be invited to work together. Here are the criteria that we can make friends business partners according to Ahmad Gozali, financial consultant from the Bureau of Financial Planners Safir Senduk & Partners:

FORMING WOMAN'S INTEGRAL PERSONALITY

The purpose tarbiyah on Muslim sisters first is to form a whole personality as a Muslim. All aspects of humanity should be grown so that Muslim women will give birth to an optimal potential, both in terms Ruhiyah (spiritual), fikriyah (intellectual), khuluqiyah (moral), jasadiyah (physical), and amaliya (operational).
According to Sheikh Hasan al-Banna, Islamic personalities covering 10 aspects, as follows:

Qasim Amin

Qasim Amin was the first prominent Muslim feminist who was born in Terah, Alexandria (Egypt), December 1865. Qasim to complete higher education in a relatively short time. Among the admired teacher at Al-Azhar is Muhammad Abduh. The pattern of critical thinking much it earned from his favorite teacher. Because of his intelligence, Qasim Amin then have the opportunity to continue study to the Faculty of Law University of Montpellier in Paris France. Returning to the Egypt, Qasim Amin's work in House of Representatives and in an institution law. He settled in Cairo until his death 22 April 1908. Among his works many women who inspire the spirit to rise up is Tahrir al-mar'ah (1900) and al-mar'ah al-Jadidah (1911). Two of the works is then much gives inspiration to the Muslim feminists to fight for freedom for women after up to now (Qutub, 1993; Harahap in Sukri, 2002: 194 -195).  
Qasim Amin was one of the first Muslim feminists raises the idea of ​​emancipation of Muslim women through their works. Qasim Amin led to the idea based on the backwardness of Muslims according to one of them caused by a wrong perception and treatment of women (Nasution, 1991: 79).

Asghar Ali Engineer

Asghar Ali Engineer was born in Rajasthan (near Udaipur, India) in 1939. He earned a doctorate in civil engineering from Vikram University (Ujjain, India). The knowledge gained from his father's religion is Shiite. He is a activist nongovernmental organization (NGO) that has a big concern on the themes of liberation in the Koran. He once wrote an article entitled "Toward a Liberation Theology in Islam" which is then translated intoIndonesia "Islam and liberation" (London: LSIK, 1993). As for his book related to the problem of women is The Rights of Women in Islam that has been translated into Indonesian under the title Women's Rights in 14Islam (1994). There are many others who voiced his justice and liberation (Nuryanto, 2001: 7-13).

Feminist in the Muslim

Anyone who tries to understand the position of women in the Muslim world must be feeling confused. We find stories in the media about the injustice committed against Muslim women all the time, such as murder to "honor", early marriage and legal decisions that discriminate in matters of divorce, child custody and inheritance.
But we also get the stories of extraordinary measures undertaken by Muslim women in education, career advancement and political activities in various countries such as Bangladesh, Morocco and Turkey.
How can we make sense of such a dichotomous picture of this?
The answer is simple: With distinguish Islam from people who follow it.
Those who learn the Qur'an know that Islam raised women's rights beyond the traditional pre-Islamic world at that time. In fact, in the seventh century Muslim women have been given the rights that are not given to the women of Europe until the 19th century, such as property ownership, inheritance and divorce.

Simple Tips to Keep Your Hearts to Welcome The True Partner

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What simple tips to keep your hearts to welcome the true partner? From experience, it replied: focus on preparation. They are talented failed marriages usually are those that focus on the "Who". With whom. Those who can InsyaAllah through married life full of challenges are those that focus on the "Why" and "How". Why did she marry, and how he grabbed it within the framework of the pleasure of Allah.
So if you want to know, here's preparations:

   1. Preparation in Spiritual (Ruhiyah)
This includes our readiness to change the mental attitude to be more responsible, willing to share, fading ego, and tolerant. There is also emphasis to be ready to use two things in real life, namely patience and gratitude. There is a readiness to submit to and accept all the provisions of God that govern our lives completely, especially in the household.

   2. Preparation Science-Intellectual Property ('Ilmiyah-Fikriyah)
Get ready to set up households with the knowledge, science, and understanding. There is a science of the Ad Deen. There is a science of communication to the mate ma'ruf. There is science to be good parents (parenting). There is a science of economic restructuring. And many other sciences.

LAW of menstrual Part 2

There are many laws of menstruation, there are more than twenty law. And we mention here the laws which we consider much needed such we mention in previous articles, here the continue, among others:


     4. Dwells in the mosque (i tikaf)

    Forbidden for a woman who is menstruating dwells in the mosque, also forbidden even to her dwelt in the place of Eid prayer. Based on the hadith of Umm Athiyah radi 'anha that he heard Prophet shollallohu 'alaihi wa sallam said:
               "‫" یخرج العواتق وذوات الخدور, وفيه "یعتزل الحيض المصلى ‬
     "To get out of the girls, virgins and women's menstrual ... but women who areMenstrual avoids place of prayer "(muttafaq alaih)

     5. Jima '(coitus)

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     Forbidden for the husband to do Jima' with his wife menstruating, and forbidden for the wife to give the opportunity to her husband does that. The evidence for God's word subhaanahu wa Ta'aala:
                  ‫] ویسألونك عن المحيض قل هو أذى فاعتزلوا النساء في المحيض ولا تقربوهن‬
                                                       [ ‫حتى یطهرن‬‬
     "They ask you about menstruation, say:" menstruation is a dirt: Thou shalt therefore keep away from women at the time of menstruation and do not approach them before they are sacred ... (Surat al-Baqara: 222)

LAW of menstrual Part 1

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       There are many laws of menstruation, there are more than twenty law. Andwe mention here the laws which we consider much needed,among others:
     1. Prayers.
     Forbidden for a woman who is menstruating do prayers, both fardhu and Sunnah, and if it turns out the prayer, then her pray is invalid. Not obligatory for her the prayer unless she get most of her time enough to do one perfect rekaat, either at the beginning or end of time.
     Example at the beginning of time, a woman is menstruating after the sun sets but she could get as much time as one of rekaat time. Then obliged her to pray maghrib  after sacred, because she has got most of her time is enough to one before the arrival of menstruation cycles.     As for example at the end of time: a woman saint of the menstrual before sunrise and still managed to get one rekaat of time. Then obliged to her after the morning prayer do the both prays purification, because she still managed to get most of the time that enough for one rakaat.
     However, if a menstruating woman get partly of prayer time that is not enough for a perfect cycles; like the arrival of menstruation - at the first instance - just after sunset, or sacred of menstruation- In the second example - just before sunrise, then pray it not obligatory for her. Based on the words of the Prophet shollallohu 'alaihi wa sallam:
                                 "‫" من أدرك رآعة من الصلاة فقد أدرك الصلاة ‬
     "Those who get one rakaat of prayer, then she has get prayer "(Hadith muttafaq 'alaih)
     sense, who get less than one means rakaat do not get these prayers.
     If a woman's menstrual cycles to get one of the 'Asr, then it is obligatory for her to do together dhuhur Asr prayers, or of time to get one rak `Isha 'is obligatory for her pray Maghrib with Isha '?