Simple Tips to Keep Your Hearts to Welcome The True Partner

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What simple tips to keep your hearts to welcome the true partner? From experience, it replied: focus on preparation. They are talented failed marriages usually are those that focus on the "Who". With whom. Those who can InsyaAllah through married life full of challenges are those that focus on the "Why" and "How". Why did she marry, and how he grabbed it within the framework of the pleasure of Allah.
So if you want to know, here's preparations:

   1. Preparation in Spiritual (Ruhiyah)
This includes our readiness to change the mental attitude to be more responsible, willing to share, fading ego, and tolerant. There is also emphasis to be ready to use two things in real life, namely patience and gratitude. There is a readiness to submit to and accept all the provisions of God that govern our lives completely, especially in the household.

   2. Preparation Science-Intellectual Property ('Ilmiyah-Fikriyah)
Get ready to set up households with the knowledge, science, and understanding. There is a science of the Ad Deen. There is a science of communication to the mate ma'ruf. There is science to be good parents (parenting). There is a science of economic restructuring. And many other sciences.

LAW of menstrual Part 2

There are many laws of menstruation, there are more than twenty law. And we mention here the laws which we consider much needed such we mention in previous articles, here the continue, among others:


     4. Dwells in the mosque (i tikaf)

    Forbidden for a woman who is menstruating dwells in the mosque, also forbidden even to her dwelt in the place of Eid prayer. Based on the hadith of Umm Athiyah radi 'anha that he heard Prophet shollallohu 'alaihi wa sallam said:
               "‫" یخرج العواتق وذوات الخدور, وفيه "یعتزل الحيض المصلى ‬
     "To get out of the girls, virgins and women's menstrual ... but women who areMenstrual avoids place of prayer "(muttafaq alaih)

     5. Jima '(coitus)

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     Forbidden for the husband to do Jima' with his wife menstruating, and forbidden for the wife to give the opportunity to her husband does that. The evidence for God's word subhaanahu wa Ta'aala:
                  ‫] ویسألونك عن المحيض قل هو أذى فاعتزلوا النساء في المحيض ولا تقربوهن‬
                                                       [ ‫حتى یطهرن‬‬
     "They ask you about menstruation, say:" menstruation is a dirt: Thou shalt therefore keep away from women at the time of menstruation and do not approach them before they are sacred ... (Surat al-Baqara: 222)

LAW of menstrual Part 1

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       There are many laws of menstruation, there are more than twenty law. Andwe mention here the laws which we consider much needed,among others:
     1. Prayers.
     Forbidden for a woman who is menstruating do prayers, both fardhu and Sunnah, and if it turns out the prayer, then her pray is invalid. Not obligatory for her the prayer unless she get most of her time enough to do one perfect rekaat, either at the beginning or end of time.
     Example at the beginning of time, a woman is menstruating after the sun sets but she could get as much time as one of rekaat time. Then obliged her to pray maghrib  after sacred, because she has got most of her time is enough to one before the arrival of menstruation cycles.     As for example at the end of time: a woman saint of the menstrual before sunrise and still managed to get one rekaat of time. Then obliged to her after the morning prayer do the both prays purification, because she still managed to get most of the time that enough for one rakaat.
     However, if a menstruating woman get partly of prayer time that is not enough for a perfect cycles; like the arrival of menstruation - at the first instance - just after sunset, or sacred of menstruation- In the second example - just before sunrise, then pray it not obligatory for her. Based on the words of the Prophet shollallohu 'alaihi wa sallam:
                                 "‫" من أدرك رآعة من الصلاة فقد أدرك الصلاة ‬
     "Those who get one rakaat of prayer, then she has get prayer "(Hadith muttafaq 'alaih)
     sense, who get less than one means rakaat do not get these prayers.
     If a woman's menstrual cycles to get one of the 'Asr, then it is obligatory for her to do together dhuhur Asr prayers, or of time to get one rak `Isha 'is obligatory for her pray Maghrib with Isha '?

Kartini, Longing on Dark Light in the Midst

-salim fillah; author of the book 'Agar Bidadari Cemburu Padamu'-

Searching the various studies on related Kartini do with spirituality and Islam, then at least we will find the four points of view;
FIRST: That the Kartini is a pure Java, which was oriented on the spiritual side of what is referred to as Javanese. "As a Javanese who lives in the neighborhood mysticism", writes Artawijaya in his article for VOA-ilsam.com, "Kartini picture about the human relationship with God is also the same: subjects manunggaling gusti. Therefore, in her letters, Kartini wrote of God as "Father." In addition, Kartini also call God by the term "Truth", "Kindness", "Conscience", and "Light", as reflected in his letters the following:

Things ofside the habbit of menstrual

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There are some things that happen outside the habit of menstruation:
     1. Increased or reduced during menstruation.
         For example, a woman is menstruating normally for six days, but suddenlyarrived menstrual lasted until seven days or otherwise, usually menstruationfor seven days, but suddenly sacred in the first six days.
     2. Forward or backward when the arrival of menstruation.

Age and Periodicity of Menstruation

1 - AGE menstruation

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     7 Habits Blood Women
       Menstrual age is usually between 12 to 50 years. And possible a woman is already getting your period before age 12 years, or still get your period after the age of 50 years. It all depends on conditions, environment and climate that influence it.

What is Menstruation and Its Wisdom

1. What is Menstruation

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According to the language, means something menstrual flow. And according to the meaning Personality 'is the blood that occurs naturally in women, not because of an cause, and at a certain time. So the blood of menstruation is normal, not caused by an illness, injury, miscarriage or birth. Therefore Menopause is a normal blood, the blood is different according to the conditions, environment and climate, resulting in significant differences on any women.