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Working or doing business with a partner is much better than working / doing business alone. One advantage is in terms of distribution / delegation of tasks so that all the work we do not do alone so it can more efficiently and effectively.
Not easy to choose a friend to become a business partner. Not all friends can be invited to work together. Here are the criteria that we can make friends business partners according to Ahmad Gozali, financial consultant from the Bureau of Financial Planners Safir Senduk & Partners:
The purpose tarbiyah on Muslim sisters first is to form a whole personality as a Muslim. All aspects of humanity should be grown so that Muslim women will give birth to an optimal potential, both in terms Ruhiyah (spiritual), fikriyah (intellectual), khuluqiyah (moral), jasadiyah (physical), and amaliya (operational).
According to Sheikh Hasan al-Banna, Islamic personalities covering 10 aspects, as follows:
Qasim Amin was the first prominent Muslim feminist who was born in Terah, Alexandria (Egypt), December 1865. Qasim to complete higher education in a relatively short time. Among the admired teacher at Al-Azhar is Muhammad Abduh. The pattern of critical thinking much it earned from his favorite teacher. Because of his intelligence, Qasim Amin then have the opportunity to continue study to the Faculty of Law University of Montpellier in Paris France. Returning to the Egypt, Qasim Amin's work in House of Representatives and in an institution law. He settled in Cairo until his death 22 April 1908. Among his works many women who inspire the spirit to rise up is Tahrir al-mar'ah (1900) and al-mar'ah al-Jadidah (1911). Two of the works is then much gives inspiration to the Muslim feminists to fight for freedom for women after up to now (Qutub, 1993; Harahap in Sukri, 2002: 194 -195).
Qasim Amin was one of the first Muslim feminists raises the idea of emancipation of Muslim women through their works. Qasim Amin led to the idea based on the backwardness of Muslims according to one of them caused by a wrong perception and treatment of women (Nasution, 1991: 79).
Asghar Ali Engineer was born in Rajasthan (near Udaipur, India) in 1939. He earned a doctorate in civil engineering from Vikram University (Ujjain, India). The knowledge gained from his father's religion is Shiite. He is a activist nongovernmental organization (NGO) that has a big concern on the themes of liberation in the Koran. He once wrote an article entitled "Toward a Liberation Theology in Islam" which is then translated intoIndonesia "Islam and liberation" (London: LSIK, 1993). As for his book related to the problem of women is The Rights of Women in Islam that has been translated into Indonesian under the title Women's Rights in 14Islam (1994). There are many others who voiced his justice and liberation (Nuryanto, 2001: 7-13).
Anyone who tries to understand the position of women in the Muslim world must be feeling confused. We find stories in the media about the injustice committed against Muslim women all the time, such as murder to "honor", early marriage and legal decisions that discriminate in matters of divorce, child custody and inheritance.
But we also get the stories of extraordinary measures undertaken by Muslim women in education, career advancement and political activities in various countries such as Bangladesh, Morocco and Turkey.
How can we make sense of such a dichotomous picture of this?
The answer is simple: With distinguish Islam from people who follow it.
Those who learn the Qur'an know that Islam raised women's rights beyond the traditional pre-Islamic world at that time. In fact, in the seventh century Muslim women have been given the rights that are not given to the women of Europe until the 19th century, such as property ownership, inheritance and divorce.
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What simple tips to keep your hearts to welcome the true partner? From experience, it replied: focus on preparation. They are talented failed marriages usually are those that focus on the "Who". With whom. Those who can InsyaAllah through married life full of challenges are those that focus on the "Why" and "How". Why did she marry, and how he grabbed it within the framework of the pleasure of Allah.
So if you want to know, here's preparations:
1. Preparation in Spiritual (Ruhiyah)
This includes our readiness to change the mental attitude to be more responsible, willing to share, fading ego, and tolerant. There is also emphasis to be ready to use two things in real life, namely patience and gratitude. There is a readiness to submit to and accept all the provisions of God that govern our lives completely, especially in the household.
2. Preparation Science-Intellectual Property ('Ilmiyah-Fikriyah)
Get ready to set up households with the knowledge, science, and understanding. There is a science of the Ad Deen. There is a science of communication to the mate ma'ruf. There is science to be good parents (parenting). There is a science of economic restructuring. And many other sciences.
There are many laws of menstruation, there are more than twenty law. And we mention here the laws which we consider much needed such we mention in previous articles, here the continue, among others:
4. Dwells in the mosque (i tikaf)
Forbidden for a woman who is menstruating dwells in the mosque, also forbidden even to her dwelt in the place of Eid prayer. Based on the hadith of Umm Athiyah radi 'anha that he heard Prophet shollallohu 'alaihi wa sallam said:
"" یخرج العواتق وذوات الخدور, وفيه "یعتزل الحيض المصلى
"To get out of the girls, virgins and women's menstrual ... but women who areMenstrual avoids place of prayer "(muttafaq alaih)
5. Jima '(coitus)
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Forbidden for the husband to do Jima' with his wife menstruating, and forbidden for the wife to give the opportunity to her husband does that. The evidence for God's word subhaanahu wa Ta'aala:
] ویسألونك عن المحيض قل هو أذى فاعتزلوا النساء في المحيض ولا تقربوهن
[ حتى یطهرن
"They ask you about menstruation, say:" menstruation is a dirt: Thou shalt therefore keep away from women at the time of menstruation and do not approach them before they are sacred ... (Surat al-Baqara: 222)
